Family Life – A Total Completion of A Relationship
Family Life – A Total Completion of A Relationship
For many people family life is the natural order of things, for others it’s a dream that seems to be insurmountable, almost every person on the planet has a wish to experience that unique experience of being a parent to a beautiful girl or handsome little boy.
Children have a way of completing a family, making it whole and although at times difficult, the experience is rewarding in so many ways.
For a woman the birth of a baby is an achievement beyond description, as each birth as unique to each person, for some women it’s a life changing experience beyond anything they ever expected. When a woman first finds out that she is expecting a baby, her emotions are quite confusing, already she realises that there is a unique little being growing inside her. Many women’s emotions are all over the place, it’s hard for some people to understand the myriad of different emotions that women go through when she discovers she is pregnant.
Fear and happiness are two seemingly conflicting emotions yet they are often part of this wondrous process of realising that life is indeed growing inside of her womb. Yet fear is natural, it need not be disaster but a certain amount of fear is quite normal as one’s body is changing is so many ways. Excitement, awe, adrenalin rush, exhilaration, turmoil are all part of this mix-match of emotions added to that the responsibility of being a parent and helping guide a child to adulthood are part of the whole package of parenthood.
Two people who have a great love for each other feel that a baby will complete their family life; both will experience their own emotions of the whole complex structure of a nucleus of a family structure. The many different facets of family life weave a spell that binds each person by a common DNA thread. The bonds within a family structure are indeed something to work for, to long for, and an achievement to strive for.
For some women this dream is something that they wish to attain but they are struggling to achieve it. They feel that their body clock is indeed running out and although they have strived so hard to conceive, the situation seems untenable and unattainable. Many have undergone extensive tests, infertility treatments that have failed, have tried every method that they have read about including old wives tales of method of falling pregnant, measured body temperature, watched menstrual cycles, tried conceiving at a woman’s most fertile periods, tests and more tests, eggs are not fertile, sperm count is low, all factors that make it difficult for that egg and sperm to finally meet and ‘marry’. Today In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) procedures with donor eggs can achieve that magical marriage of egg and sperm to give many women that chance they truly deserve, a baby that will complete their family life and make their lives whole.